tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76883091452558264072024-02-21T02:56:15.369-08:00TAKE ME TO HAPPYMy favorite word is “happy”, my favorite perfume is called “Happy”, I love smiley faces and when we found out there was a little town in Texas called “Happy”, my husband surprised me and took me there. I love being happy! But, I have learned happiness is not in places or things.
Kathy Fogarty http://www.blogger.com/profile/10528799386422106033noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7688309145255826407.post-85088603094816754962014-08-02T10:21:00.002-07:002014-08-02T14:53:31.893-07:00FINDING HAPPY<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Recovering from back surgery I'm on the patio relaxing in a "Zero Gravity" chair. The cool breeze dancing around the leaves of the 60+ trees in our yard capture my attention. God, You are amazing! Thank You! </div>
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The tree closest to the porch I would deem as a nuisance. It is a Chestnut tree-- uncommon to most. I had never seen one until moving here. The chestnuts are nestled within these big, round, spiny burrs. Boy, do they hurt! I say nuisance because when they fall off the tree I have to sweep them off the porch and rake them up from around the tree so the grandchildren won't get hurt.<br />
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Today that tree is not a nuisance but the the most magnificent shade; uncommonly beautiful. ...and so I will rake and be happy. <br />
Sometimes we have to look past life's thorns to find the happy.<br />
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<br />Kathy Fogarty http://www.blogger.com/profile/10528799386422106033noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7688309145255826407.post-21167207073849553872013-07-19T08:11:00.000-07:002013-07-19T11:51:45.855-07:00DON'T WORRY OUT THE BLESSING!<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;">Four years ago today, I was in my father’s hospital room knowing soon, he would be taking his last breath and waking up in heaven.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Watching, waiting, hoping for more time for my reality to be my dad is still with me...<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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Kathy Fogarty http://www.blogger.com/profile/10528799386422106033noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7688309145255826407.post-52746497748950945262013-06-19T07:53:00.000-07:002013-06-19T10:37:33.405-07:00SING AGAINThe unleashed songs, vibrant colors in design and outstretched wings embracing the winds are why I thoroughly enjoy birds of the air.<br />
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As I sit here, I think although they are a wonderful creation, these beautiful birds can also make a mess, fight with each other and have to endure storms.<br />
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Yes, bird droppings on our windshield or porch make us frown. But, before long, their song puts a smile back on our face. They do fight, then most always fly away together. So, though these beautiful creatures fight, have messes and face storms, they survive and continue to sing letting the winds carry them to a safe landing place.<br />
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Hmmm... our reality, life's mirrored silhouette, a bird.<br />
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We, too can make a mess of our days, get frustrated with each other, and lose our way in the storms of life and yet God's winds of forgiveness, grace and faithfulness are waiting and ready to carry us to safety.<br />
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<br />Kathy Fogarty http://www.blogger.com/profile/10528799386422106033noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7688309145255826407.post-77047254783418466162013-06-15T12:40:00.001-07:002013-06-15T22:00:37.285-07:00THE FOREVER CARD<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;">According to the world’s picture of success, we did not have much.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>According to God’s definition, we were rich!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Lord called my dad to go into all the world and preach the gospel and <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">that</i> he did!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But, he did not forget that we, his family, were also a part of that world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He and mom were our sanctuary of learning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, we watched.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;">With this being Father’s Day, I want to honor mine by telling you how he lived the example to be, the manual of honor, the study guide of strength,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>the format of faith, the blueprint of love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;">Mom and dad were the first vision for me and my two siblings of what love looks like.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>How thankful I am they gave us love in truth; the real meaning, unmasked love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Irritable moments became laughter, disappoints grew dedication and they never forgot they were teaching and we were watching.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;">Though at the time I didn’t realize, until now, he was teaching me how love in action are moments that become the forever.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;">Sometimes Dad might not have had the money to get mom a gift but he would always make sure to have her a card for her birthday, Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, or just because.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There were even on some occasions when he would just write her a note or a poem.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>From what I know, his love notes started back when they were in high school.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Marriage, kids and the busyness of ministry didn’t stop this act of love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Years go by and dad’s health is poor yet his heart is still rich in love with mom.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His health stole from him the joy of picking out the cards himself, but, it did not stop him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You see, he called upon me, “Here’s some money.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Could you please buy mom a card for me?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Oh how I always wanted to get that perfect card to say the love he showed her.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Remember, I was watching.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;">Thank you, dad for teaching me that it really isn’t the actual card or how much you spend; it is the display of love we show in all we do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You helped me to understand that although most cards are thrown away or misplaced over time, making phone calls to friends or family when you don’t have much to say, or when sitting in the lawn chairs sharing conversation with the one you love is not on the “to do” list, those are the things that make life rich and the “heart thoughts” that make those moments A Forever Card.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<sup><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></sup><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">One <i>thing</i> I have desired of the <span style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span>, that will I seek: That I may dwell in the house of the <span style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord </span>all the days of my life, To behold the beauty of the <span style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span>, And to inquire in His temple.</span><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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